How to Get Motivated Enough to Discipline Yourself Regardless of How You Feel in The Moment

This Week
Advice
Self
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Haruki Murakami’s routine is a model of discipline. He wakes before dawn, sitting down to write first thing in the morning, when his focus is at its sharpest. After a few hours of work, he runs—every day, or nearly every […]
We tell ourselves we’re too overwhelmed to focus right now. Too drained. Too caught up in whatever mess life has thrown our way. We assume that once we feel better—less stressed, less frustrated, less stuck—that’s when we’ll be ready to […]
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Every January, like clockwork, we promise ourselves that this will be the year we finally get it together. We’ll run every morning, cook from scratch, call our parents more, master a new skill, and maybe even get through that […]
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From a young age, we’re taught that procrastination is a recipe for failure–putting off tasks until the last minute supposedly leads to stress, chaos, and the risk of everything falling apart. For years, experts and studies have labeled procrastination as […]
Wellness
We don’t spend much time thinking about our bones. After all, they do their work quietly–holding us upright, keeping us […]
Stress might have earned its bad reputation but it’s very much part of being alive. We’ve come to view stress […]
The smell of sunscreen was once the signal that summer had officially arrived. It meant days by the pool, beach […]
As a woman, you could have work, family, and life under control, but is your health paying the price? In […]
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Despite the numerous studies conducted on PCOS, it is still very much a heterogenous and not fully understood condition with […]
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Hair has always been a big part of our lives, from ancient Egyptians rocking elaborate wigs to today’s unique hairstyles. […]
It really may seem that almost no part of the body is off limits when it comes to waxing, but […]
Culture
Across boardrooms, living rooms, and dinner tables alike, one of the most common complaints is the accusation of immaturity. We […]
Let’s pretend every whispered secret, every hurried text, or spur-of-the-moment posts was somehow stamped onto a wall that everyone could […]
It’s 7 p.m., and instead of cooking that healthy meal you planned, you’re scrolling through a food delivery app. The […]
Rechel Mans McKenny, a writer, shared her personal experience with Elle. “I hit my lowest point in mid-January. I managed […]
In our modern world, we might equate being odor-free to being clean, but for most of human recorded history, the […]
People Science
When I walked into my childhood home for the first time in years, the scent of freshly baked bread hit […]
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Hair naturally turns grey as we age because the pigment cells in hair follicles that give hair its color start […]
Do you know someone who wouldn’t stop bragging about how well his investments in cryptocurrency paid off? Or perhaps, you’re […]
There is a growing canon of life philosophies and literature that tout trust as a beaming character jewel. “To be […]
Throughout history, we’ve seen how powerful it can be when people unite against a common enemy—whenever there’s a clear enemy, […]
If you hardly feel inclined to get work done during the day as much as you do at night, you […]
Living in a world clogged with stress has turned us into shallow breathers, and our bodies get punished for it. […]